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writes: I had been in a relationship for the past 2 years with a wonderful man. About a week ago, I went to call him after he got off of work, and there was no answer. I proceeded to send him a text message asking him where he was, he later replied saying that he was at this other woman's house. We ended up breaking things off, and he's spending all of his time with her. I asked him a few nights ago how his feelings for me had changed so fast, going from I love you one day to not talking the next, and he replied with ..her name is whitney and she makes me happy. I know that there were times I could have been better to him, and I appologized, I tried to talk things out. I just want him back, I love him so much and miss my best friend. Does anyone have any advice on what I can do to fix all of this?? Is it true that absence makes the heart grow fond??
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reader, soletshearit +, writes (11 May 2006):
 This guy obviously doesn't have any respect for you...if he was going to see someone else he should have come and talked to you and told you he was gonna do this...I wouldn't waste my time chasing someone who will always keep you running. I am really sorry to hear that you have been treated like this but if he says he is happy then you need to accept that and move on...I know oyu must be heartbroken now but time is a healer. Essentially he has cheated on you and betrayed you and he doesn't deserve to have you or anyone else for that matter, the fact that he was completely blunt about it when you asked where he was just shows that he doesn't really care and only gives a dam about himself...he is the one who will end up alone...Always remember: NO MAN IS WORTH YOUR TEARS, AND THE ONE WHO IS WON'T MAKE YOU CRY...I'm going through a heartbreaking breakup with a guy who is as selfish as this myself so I can really feel your pain I promise but underneath I know that I would just be miserable if I got him back...what is the point if he doesn't have 110% respect for me! Keep me posted on how you are. Feeling your pain! x
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