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writes:My wife is so crazy for her shoes and high heels that she kisses her shoes and sucks her heels when we have sex. Although I too find high heeled shoes sexy isn't this going a bit too overboard? Is it normal for women to do that? Reply to this Question
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (10 August 2011):
 Sounds like a shoe fetish. Kissing and Sucking? I have heard of people being FAR more involved with their shoes than that.
If it bothers you, ask her to refrain from doing it in your presence because you find it to be a turn off.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (10 August 2011):
 It's a fetish! There are men who have shoe fetishes or feet fetishes, so why would it be unusual for a woman to have the same thing? If you're okay with it, then it's "normal". If you don't feel comfortable with it, then it's time to get creative with involving her fetish into your sex life or foreplay, or at least open up an honest conversation between the two of you. Good luck!!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 August 2011):
 sounds like fetish play to me... normal for her... NOT for me...
I did see a guy lick a singer's high heels once at a Divynal's concert once
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2011): That isn't normal.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (10 August 2011):
 Must be a full moon tonight.
Usually wives kiss their HUSBANDS during sex. She might be thinking it turns you on, maybe if you have a thing for high heeled shoes and she's mimicking your penis as the heel.
If it's not doing it for you, just tell her something else you're more interested in than shoe-love. It's also kinda unsanitary -- those things have been on the ground being walked on!
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reader, silenced +, writes (10 August 2011):
 Not necessarily "normal" but it's a fetish.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2011): Whats normal?
Whatever floats your boat n all that and I love shoes
BUT
Have to say I would be laughing outloud if I was you not turned on.
Maybe she's seen it online, porn site or something, tricky situation - could you suggest/introduce food instead so you can share the moment?
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