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My wife is haveing affair with another men I forgive her once and she started it again plz tell me what to do?

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Question - (20 July 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 July 2010)
A male Afghanistan age 30-35, *sman786 writes:

"OP Own Title" my wife is having affair! we had relationship throught phone and net for 3 years after that we agree to go for marriage life she was living in canada and i was in afghanistan sometimes when i was talking to her on the phone she was with boys and she says that they are just friends and i trusted her and she is muslim as i am and once she left home and went away with her class girl and she told me that she was doing this for me cause she said that there family is not agree with this marriage and when and when she came back home there family was agree with marriage and after tow week they came to afghanistan and they stayed in one of there relations house we met and we got engaged her parents said that they dont have time to stay in afghanistan so we fix the near date for the marriage one day i came to there relations house and wanted to take her and go out i saw a boy which i hated the most and she came with a smile and told me hey this is my baby pointed to that boy i smile and we went ... after 5 days we got married and at the married night i realized that she was not vergin in islam when a girl is not vergin at that night the husband is about to leaving her but i didnt i asked her why she told me that she fall form a place and that happens ... we had a beatifull realation good sex life and after tow months i realized that someone is calling on the mobile phone and when i told her give me to talk to him she said leave her and dont worry about it she brock the simcard of mobile and told me he was call everyday and disturbing me i let that go on that time something that i know that she was doing somthing wrong and after six mounts she went back to canada and she was pregnant and i came to tajekistan waiting for the visa to go to canada and my baby boy born and came to the world on that time on day heared somthing about her form somone and i know about boy my friend in toronto near there house and told him to follow my wife and tell me what ever she do. after tow days my friend called in phone from canada and he told me that sorry she is in affair whit a boy after that i shocked and i told my friend to talk to that boy how they know each other after a week he called me and told me that for one year they know each other and they had sex many times i was so sad and my wafe was calling me everyday morrning and evening on that time i was thinking about leaveing her but for my kid i could't do that she called me i was hateing her and not talking to her good she told me what happen to you? i said nothing and all the time i was thing what should i do after some days i told her tel me whatever i dont know about your life and you ? she was ignoring that i know somthing i told her that you know this gay and she said yea i know but just as friend and after that i told her i am gonna leave you and i am going away from you and your life if you don't tell me everything she started lie and lie and one day i was forceing her and she told me that he had relation with one indian boy and one pakistani and three canadian and tow tajek more and more and i thought about my kid and i didn't talked to her for one week she was calling me about 80 times a day after that i thought about my kid life and my life was gone i told i will not leave you if you don't do this and be a good wife she said thanks and she says that she is very sorry for this and she was very sad about this all after one mount i know that she is calling someone and meeting someone what should i do now plz help me with your answer plz plz plz and onething i was loveing my life very much but know i don't think about anything just the kid what whould happeen to him plz help me with your answers thank you

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (20 July 2010):

Get rid of this woman, my friend. She's treating you like total dirt, and it's clear that she won't change.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010):

Divorce her.

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A female reader, almc Canada +, writes (20 July 2010):

She did it once and you forgave her, she did it again and you don't know what to do.. I'm sorry my friend but you need to leave her, she is just going to keep doing it, and you talked about a kid? Is it your kid? Because she was sleeping with other guys, I would get the kid and see if it is really yours but you need to leave her find someone new because here in canada that's what you call a slut.

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A male reader, Serpico United States +, writes (20 July 2010):

Please tell me you're kidding. You're wife cheats on you, you forgive her, and she goes and does it again, and you "dont know what to do?"

Sorry to be so blunt, but what the hell else do you need to know about this woman?

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