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51-59,
*r george
writes:Hi i need help!me and my wife heve been happily married for 16 years, My wife is 37 and i am 40. we have two lovely girls no money worries what so ever, everything is fine apart the fact she has gone from little sex drive to none. she has gone off sex completely, hates the idea dreesing nice for me. she tells me im perfect and iv done nothing wrong but just sees me as a friend.all her family and friends tell her how lucky she is but she dont seem to have time for me or the kids.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2010): ...this might help:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-says-he-can-no-longer-be-faithful.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2010): Has she put on a lot of weight in recent years? Does she have a drink problem? She may be low in confidence. Any woman worth her salt will realise she will lose her man if she continues to withdraw from sexual activity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2010): I don't know. I would start with the caring thing; but it might mean she is just not into you. Suggest counseling. If she balks than I would suggest you consider the possibility that she is attracted to someone else.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 February 2010):
She's not as happy as she would like you to think at all. I would suggest that perhaps it's time for you to put effort in elsewhere, such as spend time with her, just getting to know her again. Perhaps she feels like she is unsure of who she is. You need to tell her that you're worried you are growing apart and would like to try and inject some passion back into your marriage (the 'spark) again. This means dating again with her, just doing little things for her and such. And don't pressure her for sex. She is obviously in need of emotion. Sit her down, tell her you're very worried and ask her to explain what you can do to make it better. If nothing changes, you may have to look at counselling, because eventually this will end in divorce. So sit her down and try hard to get her to open up.
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