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My wife doesn't initiate sex easily

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Question - (4 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 February 2009)
A male India age 51-59, *ivina2000 writes:

Dear Sir

My wife does not initiate sex so easily. At times when i ask for it, she says you perform coitus if you wish. After my orgasm, in this case she is not co operating, after withdrawing my penis i would see white stuff all over my penis. i know the lubrication means she is aroused and ready for sex. How could this happen when i myself have not even done a second foreplay on hour. Does it mean she has fantasized and has been aroused, and i know very well she doesnt masturbate. I was told woman need not have orgasms and they could be well satisfied with arousal itself and is this true? For you info she enjoys earth shattering oral orgasms[multiple] as i am very good at it. Inspite of the same why is this so???

Thanks

Ash

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A female reader, TELLULAH United Kingdom +, writes (4 February 2009):

TELLULAH agony auntI know this is a silly question, but have you asked her if there is a problem??

She is not exactlly turning you down, but at the same time I wonder if there is more to this than meets the eye. Maybe she has a problem, and has gone off sex.

The best relationships are the ones when a couple talk their problems through, and try to resolve whatever it is thats bothering them.

XX

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (4 February 2009):

You should NEVER have sex with a woman if she does not want it. This is rape.

A woman can lubricate herself without being turned on or enjoying it.

You can cause damage if you have sex with her without lubrication so the body responds to protect itself.

If you love your wife you will only have sex with her when she is enjoying it and ALWAYS give foreplay.

Women do enjoy the feeling of closeness and being turned on but it is also very frustrating not to be able to orgasm.

Good Luck!! xx

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