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male
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:Hey All,I am in a relationship where my wife cant stand me. She says we are not friends, finds me repulsive and would prefer not to talk to me, much less anything else. We have 3 children and i have always been the bread winner. I am an alcoholic. She says that is the problem. She says she will never leave though. Can a woman stay where she doesnt want to be for her kids? Money? Can she just not desire love and companionship. Can she spend her life alone? Is she cheating? Are her needs being fulfilled elsewhere and she stays for the perks. We have been married 13 years. She says she is not cheating, i believe she is. Any thoughts? BTW, she is 45 and I am 43.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2008): Yeah i've experienced this behaviour. She will slowly destroy you by pick faults in you, everything you do, say, look like.
In the end you will be glad to leave for your sanity and health. You will drink even more.
Whats more she will then turn round and say you deserted her and play the victim.
That said, alcohol is never a good thing.
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