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My unfounded jealousy of my BF talking to other girls is driving me insane! How do I stop?

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Question - (5 September 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 September 2006)
A female , NightAngel writes:

I've been dating my boyfriend for just over a year now. Ever since day 1 our relationship was hard, and yet we pull through every time. I know it's a common problem in relationships, but I have a severe case of jealousy.

Ever since day 1, I've tried everything I can to just make it go away, but it wont. My boyfriend has almost never given me any reason not to trust him, its just that when he's with another girl even just talking and teasing, I get so jealous it hurts to even watch. Sometimes I even get paranoia, I see images in my head, that when I leave him with another girl alone.

I think they're kissing and I can see him touching her. It's not with just one person either, it's with almost everyone...except his guy friends. Most of his friends however are girls, and since I cant just tell him to stop talking to every female in the world, I need to solve this problem. I already know that he is with me and only me for a reason, but it doesnt stop the horrible images from coming. Please help.

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A male reader, hulk27 +, writes (6 September 2006):

Hi, NightAngel,

I would talk about this with him, then ask him if he has ever had feelings for them. But he has imunity fom u getting mad. It sounds like u have nothing to worry about tho,I hang out wiht alot of girls and alot of guys, so i have never had the problem but trust him.

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