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writes:may seem like an odd post.My girlfriend keeps going on and on about how massive my penis is. but its not its average. its 6" long and 5.4" girth.She says it all the time and if she holds it in two hands she laughs and says god its massive. Thing is its not as if she is sexually inexperienced and hasnt seen many penises. and i doubt that every bloke she has been with has just happened to have been tiny. why do u think she sees it as so big?my theory is that all men exaggerrate and lie about their penis size so much that women really have no idea wot size penises they are having sex with. im sure i could tell her its 8 and a half inches long and she would believe it.any other thoughts on this?
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (6 December 2009):
 Until I had been married more than ten years (the last one) and was about 43 years old, I had never bothered to measure nor even thought about equipment size. It was my wife that said she wanted to measure and she did. She seemed happy and that was about the last time I've thought about it. It matters not.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (5 December 2009):
 I think many men would be crushed if they truly knew how little time women actually spend thinking about their partners penis. Unlike men who can spend incredible amounts of time thinking about womens parts. There in lies one of the fundamental differences between men and women and the subject of sex. I don't care how many women dispute what I"m saying, I deal in averages when I make a statement. I always know there are execptions. If women, on average, were as sexually motivated as men, NOTHING would ever get done in this world.
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reader, nolaughter +, writes (4 December 2009):
All women compliment their boyfriend/husband/man on his penis size and talk about how big it is. It's like telling your girlfriend/wife/lady that she looks nice. It's a compliment, just take it.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (4 December 2009):
She's being nice to you.
When you say that she is the sexiest woman on earth is that factually correct?
No, she is sexy to you, and you want to make her feel good.
You are big to her and she wants to make you feel good.
We women have seen tape measures and things before you know.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (4 December 2009):
 I'm 99.4% sure that 95.6% of men would be unhappy if their lover told them this: "Oh, your penis is sooooooo average! And I should know, coz I've seen hundreds!" or "You're among the higher middle range of average lovers!"
We women pay attention to the plaintive posts by men, who worry "will my penis be big enough for her" to know better than to suggest for one second that your penis is anything less than satisfactory. Just as girls post the plaintive question, "are my boobs big enough?"
As long as both partners in the relationship are happy and satisfied and turned on by the other, everything's good, right? And for the umpteenth time, if you fall in the average range penis-size-wise, most women will be perfectly happy, as long as you are a decent lover. It's the man they want to bed, not the penis by itself. Women know roughly what size it is, we're not going to haul out a tape measure to verify, because that simply never crosses our minds. Most of us aren't size-ists. It seems to me to be men that are more concerned by far with penis size.
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reader, duce00 +, writes (4 December 2009):
 Its not my experience that men exaggerate but I have heard women claim I was large when I know I am about average.
I think when you are a skilled and assertive lover they are not being preoccupied with size as much as they are being impressed by the pleasure you are giving them. Some women are naive and think that size = more pleasure. This simply is not true in my experience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): that is exactly how most women feel. Be happy! ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): she is flattering you to increase your self confidance. what are you complaining about? you should be grateful for having such a great GF. she will be a great asset to you in every way if you marry her.behind every great man is a woman. she is one of them.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (4 December 2009):
I would expect she's been told men are very sensitive about the sizes of their penises and so is making sure you know that she finds it more than adequate. So if she's exaggerating a little, well, god love her, she's doing it because she cares about you. If she isn't exaggerating, well, god love her, she thinks you have a massive penis. Either way, you win, so don't second guess this too much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): You are talking as though women just listen to what men tell them and don't judge for themselves!? As a woman, I can see for myself what I am dealing with and I can tell you that I have never once discussed actual measurements with a man. But I certainly know whether it feels satisfying or not, and that's all that matters.
Honestly as long as a guy has a good 5 or 6" thats enough length, what makes us happy after that is decent girth. So when she says "It's massive" - she may not be refering to length; the girth you reference does actually sound quite impressive.
In any case, if she's happy then why do you even care? Just enjoy!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): this just cracks me up! I cannot fathom that you are sleeping with someone who can hold it in two hands and doesnt know the difference between 6 and 8.5 ?!?! if she is a b cup and claims to be a d...would you believe it? I dont think so.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): I doubt all women are as far off on their marks as you say this woman is. But I think there is some truth in the idea.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): I never asked about size. Women don't care as much about penis size as u guys think, unless it's very very small like 3", and u cant really feel anything during intercourse. We are different also, some larger than others, so if your girlfriend enjoys u be happy.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 December 2009):
You are right most men exaggerate. Also, I think women are less bothered about size than men think. You're average sized, and she seems to be having a great time, so no worries.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): Some men might exaggerate the size of their penis but women know how big it is when making love with them. Yours is an average size, why she makes so much fuss about size is hard to fathom. Maybe she feels its flattering to you but unless shes as dumb as a box of rocks, i wouldnt consider trying to fool her into thinking its larger than it is.
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