A
female
age
13-15,
anonymous
writes:ahhh! i'm freaking out here people. my teacher told me he loves me!! i have fancied him for a while now. i know it would be totally wrong though (he isnt very young, he's not old but not young either) and he could get fired. someone please give me advice. i'm going crazy in my head right now! please someone give me some advice =]
View related questions:
my teacher Reply to this Question |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionfinally i got to the bottom of his comment, even if it is a while down the line. he was joking, and was very clear and the point that he was joking.
totally releived!!
merry christmas everyone.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2007): hey
that is really quite frightening you didnt mention ages but i can still tell you know dont take this any further and try and avoid him and if it gets too much then im sorry but yuo will have to report him !!! sorry !!!
...............................
A
female
reader, Georgie2778  +, writes (19 November 2007):
Hi,
I can really imagine you are freaking out. That is a really un-professional thing for him to have done and an awful position for you to be put in.
If it was a one-off comment, try to stay away from him for a while, if it has happened more than once or if he has done anything else, touched you inappropriately etc, please please be brave and speak to another teacher you can confide in, and the headteacher. This behaviour is not fair and certainly not ethical.
Be strong, good luck.
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2007): Look, you do NOT need to "follow your heart" on this one, believe you me!
Its totally unprofessional and inappopriate for your teacher to tell you he "loves" you, even in a joking way.
He is jeopardizing his job, and distracting you from yours -which is to focus on your schoolwork and exams, and to make friends with boys your own age.
Have you discussed this with your parents or school guidance counsellor? If not, you certainly should, pronto.
And don't be worried about him losing his job. If he is indeed behaving the way you say he is, he DESERVES to lose his job!
...............................
A
female
reader, AnnaW219 +, writes (18 November 2007):
 a teacher saying he loves you is awfully scary
if this wasnt in your dreams then that is really bad maybe you should tell someone someone you trust i meen really trust someone who you think would not tell no-one get it out of your sistum dont be afraid of what lies ahead im sure nothing will happen like i said before try keeping away from him ignore him if you really need to tell him you dont like him and get it out of your sistum that way but i wouldnt let him drive you home becuase he could do something i no you want sex with him but when you get to it you will be really fritened
...............................
A
female
reader, honkifuluvnicole  +, writes (18 November 2007):
 hey girliei dont think you are making this up or anythingand i know that this may not be a possibiltybut maybe it is.....he might of said it like "hahha, i love you"maybe....i dont know the situation or how you said itbecuase the teacher im in love with told me that he loved mebut i took it as a friendly love, not sexual love.I wish it was sexual love...but i dont think so.But if i knew the situation better....i could help more.but if you love him....then follow your heart.xo
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionby the way the one below was me on a different computer where i didnt sign in
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2007): why would i make this up???? should i really tell someone.. by the way i am 15 not 13 as if it makes much difference. and no this did not happen in my dreams thankyou very much. thats extremely insulting!
...............................
A
male
reader, Uncle_Phil +, writes (17 November 2007):
 I can only assume that this was in your dreams. I can't imagine any sane teacher, no matter how young or old, telling a pupil your age that he loves her! Are you quite sure you're not making this up for a laugh?
Perhaps he's not sane though, in which case he needs reporting to the head teacher and the police. It would be an injustice if a teacher was falsely accused of such a thing, so make sure what you're saying is the absolute truth, or you could be the one in trouble.
Phil
...............................
A
female
reader, hlskitten + ♥, writes (17 November 2007):
 Hi
Your teacher has lost the plot basically.
Broken a major code of ethics. I would report him. But if you fancy him i doubt you will do that.
Its dangerous and if you are as young as i think, he is also a paedophile to be honest in a nut shell.
Its all wrong on so many levels.
Tell your parent!
Good luck.
C xxxxx
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2007): What stupid game is your teacher playing at? You are aged between 13-15 and your teacher says he loves you! He should have more sense. Tell your parents just what is going on. If you cannot tell them then i would have a word with another teacher. He has to stop this right now, you are much too young.
take care
xx
...............................
|
