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writes:My boyfriend has restricted me on his facebook account so I can only see his public page he says he no longer is interested in facebook and does not use it very much -which is a lie because when I go onto facebook on my account I can click on his picture an it will tell me how long ago he has been on. My question is should I have unprotected sex with this guy?[Mod note: the OP's age is 60. Adding this information as some answers are suggesting that pregnancy is a concern.]
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2015): To reader anon,
I think the OP was referring to his last active time on Facebook.
She was obviously mistaken about how you actually extract that information but she obviously has extracted it.
If you have Messenger (mobile) and go to your contacts list and click on one of them... yes, there is a profile pic there... and open up a window to send them a message, it will show their last active time on the top. I think this is what she meant. Or if you go to your chat list, it will also show you last active time.
So how she said she found the info is NOT THE POINT.
The fact is, she did find it. And it is possible to find it on Facebook.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (24 April 2015):
 Is your question really "is he having sex with others and can I catch something"
the answer is Yes... he's probably cheating on you and I would NOT have unprotected sex with him and I would take yourself to the gyn and have a full STD panel if you have had sex with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2015): I have Facebook and never heard of a feature where I can click on someone's picture and it'll tell me how long someone has been on there. Facebook corporate headquarters is less than 10 minutes away from my house and I have friends who hold senior positions there, they have never heard of that feature either. LOL!!!
Also what an odd question that you are basing whether to have unprotected sex with a man based on his Facebook restrictions?
My answer is : NO, you shouldn't have unprotected sex... and NO, you should not get so drunk!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2015): Let me spell it out for you...NO!!!
You shouldn't have unprotected-sex with any man, unless he's your husband. If he's your committed boyfriend, and you elect not to use condoms; then you should get yourself tested every six months that you're sexually-active. If you have unprotected sex even once with a man you're not officially-committed to; you had better get yourself tested after 30 days have past. You don't know who he's been with, and how many people he has been exposed to; and didn't use condoms.
STD's and HIV is on the rise with mature people and seniors. Thinking heterosexual sex is naturally-safe, and being older there's no likelihood of exposure to venereal diseases.
Maybe, but there's no limit on risk or irresponsibility! You only have to have sex with an infected-person once; and they can give you something you can't give back!
I think you're old enough to know better than to put your life and health in jeopardy. No body should take a risk with their health.
I get tested for HIV every physical, if I'm sexually-active.
Condoms can rupture. I'm personally responsible for my own safety, I don't leave it up to other people.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (24 April 2015):
 Why would you want to have sex, unprotected or otherwise?? I didn't know that distrust was such an aphrodisiac.
And, why unprotected? I'm curious why you specified the protection nature of the sex you're anticipating.
Why the distrust, and why the thought of sex, and have you had it before, and whose idea is it to not protect against pregnancy (some people check the wrong age box) or STI's?
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reader, mystiquek + ♥, writes (24 April 2015):
 Absolutely not. If you're going to have sex please protect yourself. You don't know who he has been with or what he might have been exposed to in the past. Be smart. You can get diseases at ANY age and its always better to be safe than sorry.
I have to be honest, I'm like the other posters and wonder why you would even want to be involved with someone like this?
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (24 April 2015):
 Why would you have sex, protected or otherwise, with a man like this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2015): Well the fact he said he does not go on Facebook very much but you say his last active times show the contrary is not a big concern in itself. Maybe his definition of not being on it very much and yours are different.
What concerns me is that he has RESTRICTED you from seeing his activity. This is a BIG RED FLAG right there.
WHY did he do that?
Tells me he has something to hide.
Just from this fact alone, I would suggest not having sex with him AT ALL.
I have a sinking feeling he is a player.
He will probably not take you very seriously. Along with whatever other women he isn't taking very seriously.
Walk away NOW.
He sounds like a loser. A player = loser.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (23 April 2015):
 Are you crazy??????
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (23 April 2015):
This question doesn’t make sense. You talk about his Facebook use, then ask if you should have unprotected sex with him? Well if you’re ready for a baby and you love him, by all means, but if you can’t even have honesty with each other about Facebook I think your relationship isn’t going anywhere. You’d be wise not to have unprotected sex.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2015): Sorry but I seriously can not stop laughing.
Why, but why, would you ever consider unprotected sex with such a creep who lies to you. I know these kind of guys, I also fell in the trap but for gods sake no no no no......NO!
DUMP THAT GUY, RIGHT NOW. He will hurt you even more in future.
Seriously I have been there, done that :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2015): The answer is...drum roll...NO!!!
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