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anonymous
writes:With my ex, I had incredible mind-blowing sex. It was really amazing. I never had sex like that before her and never again since. However, the rest of the relationship was terrible and we ended up breaking up.The trouble is that I've been with a few girls since then, and it's not the same. I get bored in bed with them. I'm starting to worry that I'm never going to find that again with anyone. What's wrong with me?
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reader, bemused  +, writes (17 February 2008):
 I do not think anything is wrong with you but from what you say in your post it would seem that you are attracted to fireworks and things that may not make a compatible relationship but do contribute to the great sex.
Did you do a hit and run with these other girls. Kind of do a bedroom assessment and if not up to par...you moved on. Perhaps you had a criteria based on what it was like with your ex and if you had given any one of these girls more time to get to know you...well you just never know.
You are honest. You seem to be looking for a primarily physical relationship at the moment...or are you??
A physical relationship often needs time to grow. If you meet a girl you really like...I think it will happen for you. Give it time. Maybe with your ex you started out with a physical attraction before you had time to really know her and so you were incompatible.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2008): I'm guessing that you're constantly comparing other girls to your ex when you're in bed. You expect to be disappointed and of course, you are.
Do you talk to these girls about what you like in bed? You could maybe try some new things or do some role-playing.
Give it a go!
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