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My parents want me to emigrate and my boyfriend wants me to marry him. Which do I choose?

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Question - (23 February 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2008)
A female Brazil age 30-35, *nisha writes:

I am 21 and have a bf who wants to marry me but my parents wants me to migrate far from him.Who will i choose my parents or marry him an dont go anywhere.We r so i love.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (24 February 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntWhat do you want in your life?

Do you want to get married , settle down and have your own family or do you want to follow your family ?

You cannot follow your family forever. There comes a time when you must decide and be responsible for your own future.

It is your own wellbeing and your own happiness and no one can stop you .

You are now an adult and have to decide your own future.

Choose wisely.

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A male reader, shahbaz123a Pakistan +, writes (24 February 2008):

If he loves you truly then go with your boyfriend.How to check that he loves you is you say him that you don't want sex for 2 years.See the reaction of him if he says yes then go with him or else he is not a true lover.he just want sex

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A female reader, Jargenhunter United States +, writes (24 February 2008):

Can he come with you? Maybe after a year or so he can invest and make enough to move close to you or at least closer. True love will wait.

Hope this helps!

Amanda Roberts

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008):

umm ur 21 it's your life not your parents you should do what you want 2 do


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