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My much younger wife doesn't want sex? What should I do?

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Question - (28 August 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 30 August 2008)
A male Canada age , anonymous writes:

Dear cupid am a frustrated 63 year old male.the reason is my wife who is much younger than I is no longer interested in sex.She thinks that sex is unsanitary ,this wasn't a problem when we first met.I am beginning to adapt to an inferiorty complex.what would be the answer?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2008):

Dear Poster

I suggest that there is a deep rooted problem causing your fruatration regarding the lack of sexual intimacy and sex. The problem could be physical, emotional or psycological; however with the limited information available I suggest you seek professional help; first get her a medical clearance; then if there is no HOMROMONE problems or medications etc and or other medical issues that could have an influence on her libido; I suggest you both go for counseling.

Best wishes and lots of SMILES

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A male reader, Bomopu United Kingdom +, writes (29 August 2008):

The message you sent me has not been repeated on here so I won't disclose the age should you mean for it to be kept private. However, I do not consider her to be that much younger than you.

It may be possible that your wife's body is changing and she no longer wants sex as much as she used to. Or maybe she has over heard someone saying that sex between more mature couples is disgusting and it has put her off. There could be many reasons. I really think it is something you need to talk to her about it and find out exactly why she feels this way because only then will you be able to work out a solution.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2008):

Definately need more info, but the question begs to be asked.....did your wife marry you for money?

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A male reader, Bomopu United Kingdom +, writes (29 August 2008):

You don't really give us many details. How old is your wife? 20s 30s 40s? How long have you been together? How long were you having sex before she decided it was unsanitary? From the face of it - and I could be well off the mark here because you need to tell us more - but it sounds to me that she is making an excuse because she doens't want to have sex with you. Why? Well that could be a number of reasons but the best thing to do about it is talk to her about it and ask her to be open and honest about how she feels. Maybe you can sort things out. But how about a few more details?

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