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writes:I came here because right now i dont have anybody to talk to. Im typing in tearz. .my heart broken. .my soul weak. I wish i had a good relationship with my mother. We argued again today. She thinks i hate her but little does she know how much i love her. I wish my mom would stop complaining about everything, my dad, money, our house, her working too much. .etc. Ive never had a good relationship with my mom growing up, we had a nanny that took care of me and my brotherz for at least 10yearz and she left when i was 15 yearz old. I miss our nanny everyday because most of the thingz i know today i was taught by her. My mom has always been complaining, she raise her voice, never stopz talking and complaining as always. I need to be surrounded by positive people, thats what i tell her everyday then she shouts at me. Tells me thingz like i like fighting, im a bad daughter and im not. My nanny used to play with us it used to be fun. I hate being in this position. .sometimes i just want to disappear. .i hate being in this house sometime. .i dont know. .i really dont know. .
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reader, Keeley345  +, writes (7 April 2015):
I'm sorry this is happening to you. It must be awful at home right now. Sounds like your mum is stressed out and so are you. Please take a deep breath and try to relax. Go for a walk whatever helps you relax.
I doubt you're a bad person. I'm sure your mother knows you love her, it's just sometimes when we're angry we say things we don't mean. I'm sorry your nanny has left. She seems to have made you happy. Is there anyone else e.g a friend or a friend's mom you can talk to?
Maybe an auntie or a grandmother? There are lots of people who love you I'm sure. Talk to them and give your mum AND you time to calm down. You don't want another argument.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (5 April 2015):
 You can not make a person positive by arguing. She has a lot of anger and her outlet is you. As a child she feels you are an extension of her so whatever she feels you have to feel it too. Refuse to be a companion for her misery. It would be hard to accept that the perfect, warm mother will never be. A lot of people are caught up in the rat race and sees no way out. You are young, beautiful and have a bright future while your mom feels like her life is passing her by. You are not alone. A move that you can relate to is American Beauty. You would find that in the world there are more people who need help than those who are able to inspire you. Your mom is not one you can rely on for a positive source. Maybe meanwhile you can be a nanny yourself so you can spread positive energy to the world. You may not have your mom's guidance on what to do for career but whatever you do, just promise you would keep up with positive energy so your children and husband won't suffer from this.
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