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writes:i have a group of mates at skool, and mroe and more frequently the make fun of me and make me feel lousy and i cent ever seem to make them happy, its either the clothes i wear, the music i listen to or things sya, or jus how i look? i dont rly have another set of mates so i dont really have somewhere else i can go. ive had depression rexently and i think i may be sliiping bk into the same trend:( i hated it b4 and i dont want to be put through this again!.any ideas or thoughts?im male and 16 so its not like a girly fight thats made up the next day no offence Reply to this Question |
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reader, Xxxjls1987xxx +, writes (27 February 2007):
You do not need friends like that! You should'nt even be calling them friends. You can do so much better and you obviously know there behaviour is unacceptable so Im sure you will have no problem whatsoever making new friends! I used to have friends like that at school and trust me they are showing off and its just bullying. Do you really think these people are worth being depressed over? NO THEY MOST CERTAINLY ARE NOT! Hope you feel better about yourself and keep thinking your worth 100 of them!Good luck!Keep smiling :-)xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2007): talk to them bout it. private message me i'll try n help u
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reader, vina_101 +, writes (26 February 2007):
 Who needs enemies with 'friends' like that? They don't sound like real genuine friends to me. Why are you hanging around with them? You can do so much better. Real friends don't care too much about what you wear or what you listen to and if they were real friends you wouldn't have to keep coming up with new ways to please them. Friends don't make you feel lousy about yourself. Real friends accept you for who you are and like you for who you are. These people you are hanging out with are nothing but bullies in disguise. You may feel like you're laughing with them but really they are laughing at you. You don't need friends like that Wallacda. Better to be alone than to be sorrounded by fake friends. Stop hanging around them and see if there are any decent people you can be friends with.
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reader, nicola79 +, writes (26 February 2007):
 Its quite simple,DO NOT HAVE AYTHING MORE TO DO WITH THEM. They are using you to have a good time, I would rather have no friends then some like that.
Your health is more seriouse than making friends flower so dont you go running back to them. You are aloud to wear what you want and to listen to any type of music,so stuff them. Ohhh I wish I was there, they are nothing but stupid horrible bullies and I tell you something else, what goes around comes around.
Dont you worry love,you will meet some good friends and look back and think "what the hell was I doing with those idiots"
Im thinking of you and if you ever need to talk,im always here for you. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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