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female
age
13-15,
anonymous
writes:My mate is in a bad relationship with a guy. He keeps cheating on her, but recently she been chasing after the guy she knows I fancy. He is older than me but the right age for her. I really want her to stop chasing him and flirting with him. She has asked me if I think she should get back with her ex (the cheating one). I want to say no because he keeps cheating. But my evil heart is telling me to say yes just to keep her off my guy so it gives me time to flirt with him without her in the way. I know it sounds really bitchy but I know shes only flirting with the guy I like because he is there and she is hurt from her ex. Someone please tell me what to do!
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reader, beth88  +, writes (2 September 2007):
 Don't give her bad advice just because she's flirting with the guy you like. She's your friend, and not only will it end up hurting her feelings in the end, but it could end up causing friction in your friendship.
If it bothers you that she flirts with him, actually pull her aside one day and tell her that you don't appreciate it/it bothers you. If she's really your friend, she will understand and back off a bit, especially if she's just rebounding.
Or option B, you could try to hook her up with a mutual guy friend that she might actually like for his personality and not just as a rebound-guy.
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