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writes:This is for my mate shes a girl who really likes this guy who just split from her they where kinda seeing each other.this guy sent her a text a few weeks ago saying that they should be mates and that she is a really nice girl(which she is)but he doesnt feel the same way she does about him they only knew eachother 4 weeks. i think all he wanted was sex as she didnt sleep with him they only meet 7 times and she did stay over his house where little things happened,she was also told by a mate of his that he was seeing this other girl which dont think is true, this guy is vry popular in our home town many people seem to know him,She wants to try and make him see what hes missing. next time she sees him iv warned her not to bother but shes determined to get him bk she really did like him and is always thinking and talking bout him and still has his number, any advice what you think she should do would be much help? thank you
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (6 February 2008):
 Four weeks is no time to get to know any one, he has made it clear that he does not want to be with her, but he wants her as a friend, to me it seems that he is keeping her on stand by just in case his new date falls through.
Even tho she feels that showing him what she thinks, he is missing out on is a total a cop out, if she continues on this path she will be hurt very badly by her own action, he then may tell his mates that she is an easy play, do not let her do this to herself, she will be hurt very deeply by him.
you need to talk to her again and explain to her that this guy is no good in her life and if she continues in this vain, she will only make a fool of herself, and he will only use her until he meets some one else and leaves her,then she will be devastated.
She must not continue with him, she deserves a lot better for herself, there is also a chance that she may become pregnant, how on earth is she going to cope with a baby on her own, after he dumps her.
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