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My male friend just broke up with his girlfriend, I'm confused as to whether he wants to go out with me, what do you think? And if so, what should I do?

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Question - (24 February 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 31 March 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I need help. My best Male friend broke up with his girlfriend and on IM he said he wnated to "get back out there." Then he put "you" an put a * next to it. I realy like him and I donno if he asked me out or not. It's been weeks since weve talked about it and I am wondering if it was just a phase since he broke up with his gfriend. But a week ago he admitted he iked me. I donno what to do. I REALLY want him to ask me out though. What do I do. HELP!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2007):

I'm in the same situation right now. Just sit back and relax and take things slowly. Give him time to heal from his last relationship. If it's meant to be, you all will be together.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2007):

I'm in the exact same situation right now. Take the high road. Give him time to get over his past relationship. You do not want to end up being the "rebound" girl. Just sit back and relax, and take things slowly. Know that if he's for you - you will get him!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007):

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Thanks all of you. I have told him how I feel and he felt the same way. I feel right now that we shouldnt rush anything and not to do anything about it right now. Thanks for all you peoples help!!!! You all really gave good advice!!!! :)

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A female reader, nicola79 United Kingdom +, writes (24 February 2007):

nicola79 agony auntHello there,I know that you really like this person by your post and its great that you have such a good friend, but I would give it just a little bit longer because it would be terrible if it ended up as just a rebound thing, and then you may end up falling apart.

Let him know how you feel but tell him that you want to see how things go,you could even try spending more time together to see how you get on.

It needs to be thought about in detale because this isnt just any bloke,its your bestfriend sweety.

I wish you all the best and really really do hope this all works out for you both. My fingers are crossed.

Ps let me know how it goes xxxxxxxxxxx

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (24 February 2007):

AskEve agony auntYou obviously get on well enough with each other so yes, it might be a hint to you and because you haven't said anything about it he maybe thinks you don't want to go out with him. Next time you see him, ask him out for a coffee or a smoothie, or just ask him if he wants to hang out sometime and see what he says.

Eve

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