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writes: my fiance says he loves me,yet he would walk away from our 3 year relationship than to show any emotion
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2006): sounds funny.I think u probably know why he`s cold to you,and so does he.I dare say he has had a lot thrown back in his face,or been mistreated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2006): Its clear you love him by posting this.I know nothing of his background,but it suggests he`s either troubled,frightened,had past mistakes thrown up at him or experienced loss.I think he needs some understanding.Work on him slowly,without pressure or ultimatums.He wouldnt be there as long as 3 years if he didnt love you.I presume you haven`t hurt him or give him reason to mistrust?Are you always honest with him?He must be nice in other ways otherwise you wouldn`t be with him.I`m sure there`s real reasons for his lack of emotions,and deep inside he wants to be different.
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reader, Toria +, writes (25 September 2006):
 Some people can be like this they are scared of opening up and showing how they really feel, doesn't make it wrong just is the way your fiancee is and surely he was like this when you fell for him and agreed to marry him? If so you can't expect to change him and mould him into something he isn't just maybe talk to him and get him to see and understand how important this is to you and be patient with him in allowing him to open up as it may take sometime.
Good luck :o)
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reader, shania  +, writes (25 September 2006):
 How strange? So he would risk losing you then show any emotion...sounds like your dating Dr Spock.He is suffering from emotional constipation and if he can be so flippant as to say he could do that to you then i think i would take a hike myself and leave him? Has he ever shown you any affection or love? Is he suffering from depression? Has he always been like this? If he is cold like stone then i suggest you think very carefully in marrying him because its not natural.
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