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My LDR wants me to talk dirty but I don't know how.

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Question - (7 January 2018) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 January 2018)
A female United States age 18-21, anonymous writes:


I had my first boyfriend recently, but it's a long distance relationship.. so we video chat.. However, he has no problem dirty talking, but I never done this; so i dont know how to talk dirty to him.. It was kind of weird the last time cause he asked me what would i do to him, and i had no words..

what can i do? thanks

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland + , writes (10 January 2018):

aunt honesty agony auntHow often do you get to meet up with your boyfriend? The reason I ask as it sounds like an online relationship and if that is the case NEVER do anything you are uncomfortable with. Do you know this guy well enough to be in a relationship with him?

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A female reader, Andie's Thoughts United Kingdom + , writes (7 January 2018):

Andie's Thoughts agony auntThere will no doubt be lots of tips on Google. Just give it a little go, but don't force yourself. Lots of people can't or don't like to talk dirty, feeling embarrassed or uncomfortable, and that's absolutely okay. Don't do it just because he wants you to. Dirty talk isn't necessary. Good luck!

Just a side note from someone who has been in an LDR for a couple of years, please don't have cyber sex with him - texts and phone calls are fine, but no videos or pictures.

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