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My ld bf and his female friend hang out a lot - he even said her name when we were being intimate!

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Question - (4 January 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 31 March 2008)
A female age 41-50, *leur27 writes:

My boyfriend has many female friends but one in particular worries me. I have always felt she would like more from him and recently they've been spending more time together and are in constant contact via text, myspace etc. Meanwhile my boyfriend and I are long distance so don't see as much of each other and have been having problems.

On New Years eve we had a party at his house, which she was present at. A couple of his friends reassured me I was worrying needlessly and everything was fine until we went to bed and he said her name whilst I was being intimate with him.

He insists there's nothing there, he loves me, I'm the only one etc and he was wasted and sleepy but I can't shake it. Things have been amazing between us since and I don't want to push it but I can't forget it. Should I worry? Should I ask for more reassurance?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (31 March 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntLet it go. I think if you ask for more reassurance it will tick him off. His friends have told you the same. Try focusing on keeping your relationship strong.

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