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writes:i meet a guy 3 months ago in a internet, and we chatted for 1 week than we fall in love, i don't what happens he don't talk to me much or don't come online much i got so upset and i write to him asking why is he doing this to me he reply he said its not you, its me, i don't what happened to me, i am hurting you,i know,its better you forget about me,If you worry about me,it will hurt you more you are wonderful,so kind person i have met in my life i am not good for you,i m sorry its betterthat way,bye and bye forever,remember,i will always love you for a kind and fantastic person you are,you deserve better then me you will find a perfect person for you. i called him 4 times he didn't answer my calls then i send him message he didn't reply back to me,i miss and love him alot i don't know what to do now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2010): Hi there:
You know, i think when a person generates strong feelings for someone that they haven't physically been with- something as purely ethereal as this sounds- they are subconsciously removing themselves from the subject of their affection tentatively on the rational that is easier to maintain the illusion of love from afar...away from the drudgery of everyday life when it becomes so likely your lofty aspirations to human vice - something we all have and all share. I think in time you will realize that you were in love with the idea of love than the man himself. It'll get better, don't worry.
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reader, Heartbroken in love  +, writes (5 July 2010):
Im sure your a nice girl but this guy was never for you anyway. If he really loved you he would still be talking to you. I know its hard it happens to all of us. Im really sorry hun. You will be ok over time.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (5 July 2010):
 Weell.....you asked him why he stopped contacting you and he TOLD you - admittedly in a somewhat vague manner, but he did answer your question - and THEN, having told you to forget about him you called him FOUR times. One phone call is understandable, but whatever possessed you to keep calling? Sorry, I know this is harsh, but.......
Honestly, meeting online then chatting for one week - I suppose you never met him in person?? and "falling in love" - is pure fantasy, with no basis in reality. Real love takes time, as you must know, and numerous meetings.......yes, he could be married or otherwise committed, but as others have said, he isn't interested. Please, do yourself a favor: learn from this and put it firmly in the past - where it belongs.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (5 July 2010):
 Falling in love over the internet is not a reasonible way to fibd a lasting relatonship. It's kind of like me falling in love with Tina Turner just because I saw her on TV once and really liked her performance. Try the local bars in the area. they're full of dudes wanting to fall in love.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (5 July 2010):
I'm afraid you need to move on. For whatever reason, he's lost interest. You'll never know the whole story, sadly. He may have been married, he may have been speaking to several women. But it's clear that he has moved on already, which now means that you need to let him go and move on yourself. Throw yourself into your own life, do hobbies, meet with friends and such. But don't continue to chase this man, because he's not interested.
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