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My husband's semen is very thick. Any ways to thin it out?

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Question - (10 March 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 March 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *xAngelDust89xX writes:

I love to give my husband oral, but his pre-cum and semen choke me. Is there any thing he can eat or do to thin it out? i would really like to give him oral WITHOUT chokeing, and i'm sure he wouldn't mind either.

THANKS!!

XxAngelDust13xX

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008):

An "odd" question since usually it is the reverse. Thick white semen is often seen as a sign of fertility, while a thin watery load is considered weakness, and some women even feel that it means you weren't excited enough.

Semen is constantly being produced by males and broken down as well. When excited more is produced but this is usually not enough to compete with the routine production.

That means that the simplest way to solve your problem is to give a blowjob AFTER he has already cum once or twice.

Diet and physical and mental health affects the thickness of sperm.

The odd thing is that people usually take supllements to INCREASE the thickness and amount, not reduce it. But I suppose you could do it in reverse but I wouldn't recommend it. You see most of the "tips" tested or not are NOT just about getting thick semen, but about healthy living. As in, if you change your diet for thick semen, you will also be on a healthy diet, you do not want your guy to purposly eat bad food to lower his health?

I sometimes have to travel for long periods and that usually means I have high stress, eat bad, and generally ignore my health, and voila, sperm production is reduced and becomes almost watery.

When I am back home and take care off myself properly again, voila, it becomes thick.

http://www.jackinworld.com/qa/qasem.html has a lot of sensible answers to questions.

There is also a lot of nonsense on the web.

One thing I found myself is if my balls have been WAY too hot, the semen is far thinner, it is a known medical fact that testicles which become to hot produce damaged sperms. Again, it is NOT something I would recommend doing.

Two things that do work is drinking water, same as you need water to produce enough lubrication so do the balls, people who drink lots of coffee or soda's may in fact be slightly dehydrated.

Another might be to improve the flavor by getting him to eat more fruit and less meat. This effect is fairly easy to experiment with as it is the same principle that makes your sweat stink more when you eat garlic.

Make sure you drink enough as well so you got enough saliva. It sounds like you want to swallow the semen, the more saliva, the easier it will go down.

You say you choke on his pre-cum, the amount can vary but on the whole it shouldn't be that much, not enough to choke on anyway, do you perhaps have trouble in general with eating/swallowing? Or are you sub-conciously repulsed by the idea of swallowing it? Don't force yourselve, your body might just be reacting automatically because you think you swallowed something disgusting.

You don't have to swallow, for a good blowjob it is better if the guy can come in the girls mouth for the same reason it is better to keep stimulating the girl orally when she reaches her climax (blowjobus interruptus suckus) BUT you can keep it in your mouth and just spit it out later. It is a turn on to watch a girl swallow, but watching her choke on it shouldn't be.

Reduce the depth when he is close, and use your tongue to keep it from shooting down your throath if he is a powerfull ejaculator and collect the semen in your mouth, possibly pushing it out immidiatly and keep yourselve relaxed and calm. Perhaps knowing that you are not going to swallow will lessen your bodies reaction to it?

One thing I heard is that eating a raw eggwhite can make you get used to the situation. Half cook it, till it looks like the semen produced by your guy and see if you can deal with it.

Ask yourselve, are you having a real physical reaction to the substance (unlikely, think of it, can you eat stuff that is pretty similar if you know it is normal food) or is it mental? Just wanting to do it is NOT the same as your sub-concious thinking that you just got something disgusting in your mouth.

Bad experiences with will only re-inforce it in your mind that ejaculate is bad and make you react even more strongly. Don't force yourselve.

Try the half-baked egg thing, try tasting his sperm after you give a handjob so you can control the amount and don't have to deal with him shooting in your throath.

But remember, if you just can't deal with it, NO HARM! It doesn't sound like he demands you to do it, so don't push yourselve.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008):

The simple answer is no, nothing can be done about the viscosity of a man's semen. It can and does vary from one guy to the next but I wouldn't have thought you would have a problem with pre-come as it is generally always thin. I think that it is just that you simply cannot cope with oral sex taken to the limit. Why not try starting off with oral then, when it comes to his crucial point of no return, finish him off by hand? Any considerate lover would agree with this, I'm sure. Good luck!

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