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My Husband wants to dress in satin maid outfits while cleaning the house.

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Question - (23 July 2009) 16 Answers - (Newest, 30 September 2014)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi all

I was hoping you can help, my husband and Ib have a great sex life and we are both quite openminded. My husband has admitted that he is Bi and has fantasies about being dressed in satin and being a sissy with other men. I know he has a major satin fetish and I try to accomodate this by wearing satin when I can, blouses, skirts lingerie etc.

Husband is now at home and looks after the house etc but has asked if I minded him dressing in a satin maidsd outfit while he cleaned the house while I was at work, I am a bit taken aback and dont know what to say, any ideas or thoughts? Is he taking it too far

Thanks

Sarah

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A male reader, w9iszerd United States +, writes (30 September 2014):

im aman and to please my landlady I dessup in a French maids uniform and high heels and to the house work for her

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A male reader, cissy4use United Kingdom +, writes (7 May 2013):

Lady, it probably came as a shock to You when your husband first came out, but as he had the nerve to come out it is a deep rooted need in him to be what he is becoming and in this he has given you an awful lot of Power and Control over him.

So use it to Your advantage.

You may be losing a husbanmd but you are gaining what in reality is a ^^^^ to do ALL your bidding and Obey ALL your decisionsas to its future life under Your Authority, so dress it up in satin and see how submissive and attentitive it becomes to Your needs and most of all enjoy!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2013):

first make him do things that are not enjoyable to you. Alawys take advantage of his willingness to do this work to your satisfaction. Be very harsh and detail orientated. Make sure he realize that the performance has to be at a level to meet your expectations. Then allow his desires of dressing in maid outfit.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2013):

let him be the maid. lots of us men want to be house maids/ servants to women

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2013):

Well it maybe some time since the question was posed, but the cross dressing is fine, have him as your maid, work him hard, reward him in girly ways as he takes on more of the cleaning duties, have your friends unexpectedly call by with no where for him to dissapear to, he will have to serve drinks and be very demure. take lots of photos and videos for security and to back up your instructions.

With talk of him being Bi and other men! Stop this activity straight away! you do not want him bringing anything home that you do not want (STD)have him medically check uot and consider his chastity for both giving and receiving sexual activity. Good luck J

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A male reader, Leighanne_cd United States +, writes (20 March 2011):

I am married almost 29 years and I dress in a housekeeping dress, lingerie, heels, hose with wig and makeup for my wife. I am her housemaid at home. I even have a dress I can wear with a very fill petticoat that locks just behind my neck so my wife can go to work knowing I am not leaving the house or getting undressed.

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A male reader, Gina Fuller United Kingdom +, writes (3 July 2010):

Dear Sarah,

My husband has been a maid for 4 years now and now called Gina. I came home unexpectedly and found him tied to a chair in a satin maids dress. After long chats I realised it was just a feeling he had in wanting to dress in female clothing. I then accommodated his desire and he is now a full time maid at home, does everything from washing, ironing (all my undies which is nice) and is prepared to let me dress him how I want not how he wants. So I dress him in long line brassieres and deep corsets to make him realise womanhood is not all easy. he certainly is not taking it too far, it is something he needs to do. Don't let him have his way girl, you tell him. Try having sex with him when he is dressed, you'd be surprised how much more responsive he is dressed. Please contact me on [email address blocked] if you feel you need to chat, but most of all do not worry. Rebecca

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A male reader, maidangela7349 United Kingdom +, writes (11 June 2010):

maidangela7349 agony auntHi I am sorry but I am answering this from a bias point of view as I am a professionally trained male maid. However my advice is first give him regular household tasks to perform. Second make sure they are done to a satisfactory standard. Have him wear proper polycotton domestic uniforms while he does the work. They are cheaper that satin and easier to keep clean (and you should insist that they care kept clean. If he does his work properly then let him wear satin uniforms in the evening or weekends as a reward. If something is not done to your satisfaction make him do it again and no satin uniform that weekend. I hesitate to suggest corporal punishment that is up to you

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2010):

I am a male with a love for satin as well, but I dont ever wear womens satin clothing, because they make mens satin shirts, pjs and mens satin trousers, so try getting your hubby into that if he loves satin. He doesnt have to wear womens satin.He can still enjoy the feelings satin gives and dress in mens satin like I have done.Try contemposuits.com for mens satin shirts and intimo.com for mens satin pj pants, mens satin robes and pjs etc.hope this helps

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A male reader, maidangela7349 United Kingdom +, writes (1 June 2010):

maidangela7349 agony auntI would suggest that you obtain something more practical such as polycotton cleaners dress and tabard and insist he wears that to do the housework. Tell him that the satin maid outfit will be a treat or reward if he does a good job and he will wear that at weekends when you are at home and have him wait on you while he wears it.

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A female reader, mysterious_blonde_lady United Kingdom +, writes (26 July 2009):

Lol. They are just wasting time getting off on their fantasy that's all. I don't find it threatening i find it amusing. And the way they have written you would consider that they don't expect their partner to read it. The anonymity wouldn't count between couples because on 'their' account all they have to do is click on 'my questions' and there it is. And no it isn't, loads of people share email accounts but they share sites where you want to ask help and opinion ABOUT your partner. That's stupid. Anyone with half-a brain would realize that noone would post a question about their other half (a personal question) knowing that person can read it. What i think has happened here is a bloke who obviously gets off on this stuff has posted this question looking for general female opinion or what reaction women have to this kind of cross-dressing. He is a first time user and when seeing 'anonymous' he thought this meant entirely anonymous he neglected to notice that it however listed age and sex. Fact is;; noone ever signs with their name. Stands out like a sore thumb.

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A female reader, mysterious_blonde_lady United Kingdom +, writes (25 July 2009):

Ok. I'll tell you why. Because this person is registered as a male on this site. I don't think its odd that they share an email account i think it is odd they are both signed up to this site in the same name. The reason i think this is odd is because this means that they are both askinbg personal questions that both of them can read. Surely if 'Sarah' is asking a question about her husbands cross-dressing habits it might be upsetting to him if he were to come onto his account and find that his wife had been broadcasting their private stuff on the net on his account?? Just maybe. It doesn't make sense. 'Sarah' is a fraud.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States + , writes (24 July 2009):

Tisha-1 agony auntYou two are the ones who determine what is "too far", it shouldn't fall to a group of strangers to police your private life. If it bothers you, let him know. If it doesn't bother you, what's the harm?

If you're both open-minded and communicate well, this should be a no-brainer. Just talk about this with your very best listening skills, a great deal of empathy, and lots of love and devotion to each other.

Best wishes for a long and happy marriage.

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A female reader, mysterious_blonde_lady United Kingdom +, writes (24 July 2009):

Why are both you and your husband registered to this site? How odd.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I am using my husbands account we share the same email address and it wont let me register with it again. Hope that solves the question.

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A female reader, mysterious_blonde_lady United Kingdom +, writes (24 July 2009):

That's strange.. if your name is sarah.. the why does it say you are male? :)

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