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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi,im 22 years old and i have 2 kids and a wonderful husband,my life is very nice god has really blessed me and i should be very happy but lately I really hate myself I hate my face I hate my body and i just feel really ugly for some reason even though everyone says im really beautiful and my husband tells me I have nothing to be insecure about but I feel like hes lying and hes just saying that to make me feel better.Even when women come on tv I get so mad at him for looking at them and I usually storm out of the room in anger and always start crying while looking at myself in the mirror thinking why cant I be pretty like that.Its starting to ruin my relationship to the point where he doesnt want to be around me at all cause he doesnt want to deal with me talking about how I hate everything about myself,please help me I dont want my relationship to end.Any ideas of how I can get more confident would really help me,thank you so much for your time.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (1 February 2010):
Read The Secret by Rhonda Byrne. I wasted my 20's being insecure like this. Now in my mid 30's I've woken up and taken control and its great!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 February 2010):
Is there something that has suddenly made you feel this way, is has it come around since you've had children? Women seem to become far more insecure when they've had children. You need to think about what it is that makes you feel this way, so you can face it and move on. If you need counselling, then get it. Because your husband will start to feel rejected if you continue, and I'm sure you don't want that. So find out what is making you so insecure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2010): I'm like you, except I did lose my BF. Go to counselling ASAP. I have not found a way to break these thoughts and I still hate myself, but at least if you go to counselling you'll feel a bit better and most importantly your husband will see that you're making an effort and that you really do care about changing. He will appreciate that.
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