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My Husband said I dont love him if I wont give him a blow job!!!

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Question - (6 February 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 February 2007)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

My husband says I don't love him if I don't give him a blow job. Blow Jobs make me throw up what should I do - at this point I don't care if he leaves me.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2007):

I think it is important for you to talk to your partner and let him know oral sex is not somehting you enjoy doing.

If you are brave enough, offer to be more adventurous in bed, but make sure you are both comfortable with eachother, and what you are doing. It is important not to feel intimidated by your husband. And, as i am sure you trust him if you got married to him, the telling hiim the way you feel should only lead to deepening your respect for eachother.

Hope it goes well.

xxx

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A female reader, xkimx United Kingdom +, writes (6 February 2007):

xkimx agony auntif u dont care that he leaves that must mean u dont love him but or your just angry with him , if you dont want to do it dnt do it it doesnt mean u dnt kve him at all

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A female reader, dragonette Sweden +, writes (6 February 2007):

dragonette agony auntIt's not a very nice thing to try to emotionally blackmail someone into performing sexual services for them.

I really think you need to have a chat with your husband about showing proper respect for your partner. To me it sounds horribly disrespectful for a man to try to force his wife into something like this. If he can't respect you, he doesn't deserve you.

If your relationship with him is otherwise good I've got two suggestions on what you can do, and I'm sure that there are other people here who can offer you other ideas.

1) Does he give you any oral action? If he doesn't you can tell him that you wouldn't force him to please you orally and he shouldn't try to force you.

2) If you want to try to please him you can instead of taking it into your mouth give it a few kisses and leave it at that.

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