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writes: my husband of twelve years has told me out of the blue he no longer loves me like a husband should and he does not know why this is.we have our own buisness which is in trouble finacially which is now affecting home finances he has moved into a friends house so he has time to sort his head out away from me and our two children please can you give me some advice or guidance as i have never been in this sort of situation before neither has anyone that we know. thanks
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (12 September 2006):
 Give him the space that he needs and you take sometime for yourself. Financial problems can affect relationships in a very negative way because one feels bound by this burden. I think him telling you that he doesn't love you like a husband should is a bit premature and once he has had time to resolve his issues he will see the error in his ways. Is there another woman involved? I don't think so but if so thats a horse of a different color. Just give him his space and both of you need to do some soul searching. In the down time be prepare for the worst. Talk to an attorney and a counselor. You have children to worry about. This will take your mind off the hurt for a little while but be prepared. I hope this helps.
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