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writes: my husband of twelve years has told me out of the blue he no longer loves me like a husband should and he does not know why this is.we have our own buisness which is in trouble finacially which is now affecting home finances he has moved into a friends house so he has time to sort his head out away from me and our two children please can you give me some advice or guidance as i have never been in this sort of situation before neither has anyone that we know. thanks
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (12 September 2006):
 well it may be all the financal problems thats putting stress on to him. its going to hurt after 12years he says that but your be ok in the end but i think he just needs time out a little brake so give him it and when he comes back if he does you tell him after a few weeks you need time out if your ok with leaving you r children with their dad, if your not ok with that go away for the week end with your children on your own! and leave your husband behind after you both have had a brake things should get back to normall. or it could be he needs a break to see how much he misses you and how special you are in his life. but at the end if things dont work out with you 2 the pain will of course be ther but it will get easier all you have to do is be strong for your kids at least you have them.
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (12 September 2006):
 Give him the space that he needs and you take sometime for yourself. Financial problems can affect relationships in a very negative way because one feels bound by this burden. I think him telling you that he doesn't love you like a husband should is a bit premature and once he has had time to resolve his issues he will see the error in his ways. Is there another woman involved? I don't think so but if so thats a horse of a different color. Just give him his space and both of you need to do some soul searching. In the down time be prepare for the worst. Talk to an attorney and a counselor. You have children to worry about. This will take your mind off the hurt for a little while but be prepared. I hope this helps.
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