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writes: My husband and I have been together 12 years. He feels he's missing the intimacy we once had but the only way that he can get intimacy is through sex. But afterwards he's still not happy and thinks that if we do it again then he will feel the intimacy again. But that never happens. If I try to talk to him about this we end up in a vicious argument everytime. I don't know what to do about this because I have to have a life outside of the bedroom. We have two teenage boys and it's not normal to be locked up inside a bedroom all the time. We need help but I don't know where to turn. Reply to this Question
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (11 October 2006):
 Sounds as though he has a deep-rooted emotional problem..get him to go to Relate with you, or see his doctor, who might refer him to the appropriate professional who will help. These people are brilliant, and do not apportion blame. They are trained to help. Good luck.
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