A
female
age
41-50,
*ushad
writes:I had a beautiful love cum arranged marriage (my husband was engaged to other gal he didn't like, went against whole family took 3 to 4 years solid to convince all ..its so romantic and like movie story)...its been 2 years..Ive a baby even from wedlock............my problem is my husband never shows affection (holding hand...unless it is night ..U know wat I mean)..never ever praises me look wise ..its always me asking how I'm looking..then some words come one or two..never express his feelings to me..when I'm sick he shows no care when I complain he says U'r mom spoilt U(as My Mom is emotional)....till yesterday night I was like okie ...leave it..but yesterday I was asking few genaral questions just to open him ....I said don't think just answer..(no manipulation)...like if U r away from me and someone beautiful lady comes in front of U in 2 piece ready..U r also feeling lonely..wat U'll do? he said I'll run.all answers were okie.but U know my last question was let us suppose I die now?then He said GOD FORBIDS if U die now I'll remarry....after this I've not shown him anything but me torn into pieces...I expected not this.............of couse M not looking for a break up till I die...but m not able to feel good even.Plz guide me
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reader, penguin64  +, writes (6 October 2008):
 awwww thats really harsh! i feel sorry for you. have you told him how you feel? if you dont want to break up or anything then u have to be straight with him and tell him how you feel or you'll jsut be miserable. dont stick with it cos of what other people think. its nothing to do with them.
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