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writes:if my husband puts some womans phone number on his phone under a false name and delets all txts he sends and recieves but only from her, and clears his call register twice in as many days is he cheating?several times i have asked him if he is seeing some-one but he says he's not.so why does he txt her as soon as he is out the door for work?reason i know is i have rang the number and asked her to stop txtg him but he not that clever wen it comes to phones so dont delete everything as i found stuff on his message counter not details but time and date wen he txt her, and fri he txt about 5 times through the day, and one was 2mins after he txt me!! HELP
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2008): Hi...I feel your pain...im so sorry....
My husband has a "friend" that I know that he has been texting privately for a long time. When I found this out a couple years ago, through phone records ...and his phone...we got in a huge fight about it. He swore to me that they were "just friends" even though she is married! Why doesnt she call me? how would she feel if i was always texting her hot husband? Now after 2 years...guess what? I found her number /texting again on his phone....now what? I feel this is emotional cheating..even if they never had sex or what. Im tired of him lying to me, and being sneaky. You know what...Im so sick of it and him...she can have him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2007): if you want to know for sure, and you really have to be sure you want to know the answers. Look at www.wouldmypartnercheart.com I was suspicious of my husband,he always seemed to be texting, or spending hours on the computer. If his phone rang, he walk out the room. When I asked him, he denyied it,and told me I was the one with a problem! I couldn't afford private investigators etc, but tried the people above, as it's very cheap. In return, I found out my husband was having an affair, plus, it was not his first! I also found out that my mates husband was covering for him when he went for nights out! As I say, you have to be sure you want to know the information, it's hurtful, but I found it easier to deal with the truth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2007): well im in exactly the same situation my husband has been texting and getting text from a woman but not only that she has also been sending him pictures of her not wearing very much?? what i have done is gone out and bought a pay as you go mobile phone he doesnt know about and when he is in the shower i have sent the pictures and texts to my new phone but he has now staryted to delete them but just like your husband he is not doing the message counter so i have kept a written log of every single txts he has sent and he has recieved. i have also written to his mobile phone company requesting a 6 months printed statement as the stupid idiot has forgotten that i originally registerd the phone in my name so i am waitng to find out how long it has been going on then i will confront him/ if you need to chat please dont hesitate to email me on [email address blocked] let me know if i can give you any more tips on haow to catch the cheating bastards???
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2007): "if my husband puts some womans phone number on his phone under a false name and delets all txts he sends and recieves but only from her, and clears his call register twice in as many days is he cheating?"
What part is unclear? Yes. He is cheating. Its offical. Have they had sex yet? Don't know the answer to that one, but its sure to be just a matter of time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2007): i think you should hold off for a bit, if you have a camera fone take pics of the message times and dates so you have proof to show him, he can't deny it if its in black and white, but make sure you dont get caught!!
good luck
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reader, AskEve +, writes (24 February 2007):
 Get his phone, find the evidence then confront him about it. SHOW him the evidence. Ask him what he's playing at? Does he WANT to lose you? If he can't be honest with you and is going behind your back like this then you really need to think about whether or not staying with him is the right thing to do. Do you want to go through the rest of your life wondering who he's with if he comes home late?
You both need to sit down and talk about this seriously. Show him the evidence you've found and let him know you're not thick! If it doesn't stop, tell him it's over! You deserve better.
Eve
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reader, si101 +, writes (24 February 2007):
 my mum and step dad split up because of the same reason me mum found txt and numbers on his phone and where apart for about a month if i hadn't of broken me arm they would have never talked and worked it out good for them a bit of sods luke for me lol but we found out that the txt where comeing from work so the moral of the story is she over reacted and it hurt so chill and find out toucher is a good way to find out : )
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