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My husband is talking like he is single!

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Question - (22 December 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 26 December 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi, my husband is now in another country doing some bussines...I talked with a friend of him, and he told me: "Your husband sounds very happy there..he doesn't want to come back..he saids over there is a paradise..and he wants me to come there and I could see with my own eyes what he is talking about.."

After that I was very upset..and I checked the emails..I saw what he wrote to his friend..and all that is true...I am very sad/upset...because he is talking like he is single..I don't like to much that guy because since I know him, everytime is flirting and talking about the girls, when we go out whit him, he always talk with my husband about girls, I told my hubby I don't like the way that he talk in front of me, and I deserve more respect because I am your wife no a scort...Since that time we never went out with him again..untill now and that was he said to me, and makes me feel so angry..

The point is, from no to long ago I realized I am no more atractive to my husband, him is 44 and I am 32...when we go out..everytime I received compliments and some times some one wants to talk with me and every time I say " no thanks I am with my husband"..I mean I know I am a good looking woman, young and healthy...that seems like everybody knows that except him..that's make me sad...because I would like to be her only and most pretty woman in the world..but he is looking around and I don't feel confortable..now he is in another country and he feels like is the paradise..with all kind of women and without me.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010):

You need to find someone who lives where he is and verify all this to you. Take pictures or videos to confront him and decide your next step. This is serious stuff and you do not want to be thinking and feeling the same while he is cheating on you and having a great time.

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A female reader, dersita Ireland +, writes (22 December 2010):

dersita agony auntWell you need to act fast. You gotta try your hardest. He sounds like a dishonest man. Think about it. An untrustworthy man in an area full of women without his wife! Oh what could HARDLY GO WRONG???? :S

The best idea you could possibility do is keep your eyes open! Dont become a lunatic but become a watch dog!!

GOOD LUCK!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2010):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

well..the thing is I can not go there...I am working here and really I can't move out!...

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A female reader, dersita Ireland +, writes (22 December 2010):

dersita agony auntIt looks like your relationship is falling apart.

You gotta do something quick. I dont wanna say it but i have a feeling he's becoming bored of you. (I'm not trying to be bad)

The way he's acting as if he's single looks as if he wants another woman. Waiting for someone else. You should definitely go to the country that he's staying in. Therefore you're able to keep your eyes on him.

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