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writes:i am in panic i live with my husband since march 2000 we get married in april 2003 is been treat me very bad since i had my 1 child with him now 6, i am the wife n0 3,is got 2 girls in angola 19 and 21 years old another 10 years with a ex-partner she lives here in england she made my life miserable because they don't stop going to party together and sending msn to each other they have secrets, he insult me all the time and my family and he told me in my face that he just married me to get status in england because he was asilum seeker. i told him to leave the house but he don't want to leave. please help me what can i do? sometimes is nice to me but i never know when is going to be abusive at least is once a week. i have 3 kids with him and a 13 years old from my 1 partner
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007): Why dont you go and have a chat with Citizen Advice, they will be able to point you in the right direction. He needs to be exported and you can have a happy and fulfilled future without him. You deserve to be happy, so dont think that you have to put up with this. You have had kids, so what, you will manage on your own. Dont put up with this a minute longer, please get him out of your life, and live.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (9 November 2007):
 You're going to have to get rid of him. This is not a good person to be with. Doing what he's doing doesn't make him a man it makes him a wannabe.
I may have some good news for you. England laws and the laws here are fairly close in nature. With him treating you like this, check with your government. Getting married just to gain status is fraudulent. Entering into a marriage under those reasons makes the marriage a possible voidable marriage. Not a divorce. If a judge sees his intentions in this manner, the marriage could be voided as if it never took place in the first place, therefore revoking his status in your country as well.
You deserve to be happy. If he's this way now, I doubt that will change.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007): I think you already know what the answer to this is!!
Cut your losses, pack your bags and make a life for you and your kids elsewhere!! He will only bleed you dry financially if you allow this to continue!!!
You have to get the authority's in if he won't leave the house, start divorce proceedings against him if you have. I kno its costly but believe me it will be worth it in the end.
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