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writes:so my husband and i were talking about fantasies the other day. he said one of his was to try group sex with another couple. no swapping spouses or anything, just being in the same room or possibly me and another girl. i am trying to open up to new ideas and think the idea is kinda hot, but still unsure if i would do anything. our best friends (a married couple) have seem interested in the idea but suddenly his wife is jealous and doesn't want to try anything. in a way i am quite relieved that nothing will happen. so last night my hubby made up a profile on swing life (without telling or asking me) and he has suddenly gone crazy on swinger sites posting ads about us (no pics, just minimal info) should I be worried???
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (4 July 2010):
 It sounds as though he has gone a little iverboard with fantasy camp life. If he were to try it once he and most other men would run home to his real life. While 3somes and more look cool on the porn sites. In real life there are sounds and smells and scenes that can make a person wabt to gag. It ain't what it looks like! Ask him how he'd feel having his nose up another man's backside. That seems to end up being the break. And it always ends upin a cluster like that. Yucky!
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (4 July 2010):
 A lot of people open accounts and forget about them, leaving ghost accounts everywhere justing wasting space. He gets the opportunity to browse through other couples and fantasize. You dont have to worry until he chats without your knowledge. If he respects you he would stop doing something you don't feel secure about. To be fair, he has to be okay with the idea of two men one woman. Once you have this agreement with him a lot of men will have given up on this threesome idea. There are far less women interested in having two guys than men wanting two women, so it always remains a fantasy.
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