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My husband has become impotant!

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Question - (19 September 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 27 September 2010)
A female age , anonymous writes:

I want to see ,if there are other woman is in my situation,and I really need help, for acceptance of my husband.

He has a chronic erectile dysfunction ,what started years ago. But the doctors didn't find anything wrong with him, and they have no clue ,what is this problem. He has no sexual desire ,and he says sex is not important for him. His hormones are fine.. I dont know what to think.

He is like off sex, and he used to be a sex maniac with me.Please understand ,it is chronic, that he does not care for sex,and when we have sex, he loses his erection right after he enters. MY QUESTIONS ARE..

-Is it possible,that a man just forgets sex without any reason/?

-Is it possible,that a man becomes impotent ,and there is no medical reason for it?

_If it is not medical ,what else do you think it could be?

He says he loves me,and it is not me. Please help!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2010):

Why is it not sure ,why does he have this problem? The doctors , must be able to diagnose it. There is no such a thing,that no diagnosis. Sooner or later.You should have the right to know....Take care

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2010):

Thanks,

The emotional issue is very general. Sadly. We all have emotional issues, but I keep hearing about man ,who is horny as hell at 60,and the wife, can't keep up. I just hope ,its not me somehow.

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A female reader, cupid_repellant Germany +, writes (19 September 2010):

Well, a lot of times this happens to men because of emotional issues rather than physical. I wouldn't conclude it was because of you. Is your husband in a lot of stress recently or suffered any emotional blows? Might be the answer to his issues.

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A female reader, Oregongrl1 United States +, writes (19 September 2010):

Well if there is no medical reason? have you 2 maybe thought of viagra! there is always a reason behind a man not being able to get an erection! i think it is a mental thing. and we all know sex is always great at first and it slowly decreases in time! and that is a fact. maybe you could do something really romantic go back to one place that was a special place for you and do something romantic and yes sexy. challenge different things to figure out what the issue is if it isn't a medical problem so narrow it down and notice when he has changes and why!!! even watch a porn movie w/ him and see how he reacts to it. maybe he just needs more attention or requires different ways different things. like i said we aren't 25 anymore our hormones and bodys change and we have been having sex w/ the same person for yrs so just add a little more ingredient and spice to your sex life! just try it.

Good Luck!

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