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*haran31
writes:Hi aunty,I have been married for 4 months now and having a nice relationship with my hubby,however recently he has been insisting on using cuffs in bed!!he wants to try bondage..He wants me to cuff him and make him my slave!!I have not tried this before,hence hesitate!!what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2010): Don't do it if you are uncomfortable with it.
At four months of sex life there is tons of experimentation and understanding of bodies that you can do. Explore each other...
Some men come from repressed cultures and feel like they want to do all this because of the thrill of something forbidden. It is also because some couples feel hesitant in expressing sexual needs openly... they feel that being put in a position of no choice would make you open up and express your needs.
Try and have fun in other ways.... so the topic does not come up :) Surprise him and take the lead every once in a while. Let him know what you want... Try to be less inhibited and experimental.
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