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writes:I am in a relationship and my boyfriend lives in Birmingham were as i am further north! We have been passing e-mails of houses that he could rent/buy. He also says he loves me. I am 100% in love with him but i dont know wether or not to beleive he will actually move up. Also he might be a father to someone else and i fear this will break us apart even though he has assured me it wont. Please help someone. my heart has been broken many times before, i couldnt stand it to happen again. Reply to this Question |
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (17 November 2006):
 Your heart has been broken. Anytime you get into a relationship its a risk. You have to believe in that love. It might be fine and it might work out bad. If it does go bad you pick yourself and dust yourself off and try again. The child is his responsiblity not yours. He will handle it and handle it well if he loves you. You just have to be accepting. With great risks comes great rewards. Take a chance. You only live once and you don't want to continue on regretting not trying. Michael Jordan once said,"I never minded failing I just regretted not trying...." Good Luck.
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reader, Fizzyface +, writes (17 November 2006):
Fizzyface is verified as being by the original poster of the question Bleachblonde11 thank you for you advice. I will keep it in mind x
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reader, Beachblonde11 +, writes (17 November 2006):
 Ok calm down, here's what you do if you truly love him and you wanna totally be with him then yes trust him and be with him and if he is a father then thats his problem and you will have to take that risk... but if he looovveeesss you and you love him then go for it!
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