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writes: Me and my guy are so in love but he wants to break it off before we get happier and then something bad happens where we both get hurt worse than we already are going to now. So are most guys afraid of commitment bacause they feel they havent found the right person they want to settle down with?? Or could it possibly be that both of our parents are divorced and he doesn't want to end up that way?? Any responses are greatly appriciated!!! thxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthxx for all the responses, some i think are a little wrong just cuz when i guy goes from his longest relationship of 2 months to our 6 months i think that means a lot and that hes not just looking for fun or using me in any way but i still value all your opinions and will take them into consideration...who knows, i could be the one who is wrong here. thxx again!!!!
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reader, nnairac1972  +, writes (17 June 2008):
I think he is only looking for fun, he doesn't want any relationship, maybe he cares for you and see that you are getting in love, he doesn't want to hurt your feelings and I can tell you now, he will say he wants to be your best friend, this is just an excuse to be close to you and he can have someone else to have sex, you won't be able to be with another guy because he will be always there for you, don't accept this relationship, if you end it don't be his friend, some guys are afraid of conmmiment and when they see the parthner is looking for it they move away. BE CAREFUL
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): "he wants to break it off before we get even happier and then something bad happens"
This "reason" he's given you for wanting to dump you is so incredibly asinine that I have to think it's just a BS excuse to cover for the real reason.
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reader, Samhamss +, writes (16 June 2008):
it's probably both honestly. He may just be one of those people who are afraid of relationships because they can often end in great hurt. I know I am.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): he has commitment issues...its that simple
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