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writes:So me and my gf have been dating for almost a year now ( 11 months to be exact). we had sex already...for some reason my penis size really bothers me... i am about 1-2 inch flaccid only and about 4-4.5 inch erected... i have a rather small penis...plus i have a bad premature ejaculation.. i could barely go over 2 minutes during sex... we havent been having sex for some time now.. everytime i ask or make a move she always says she is not in the mood...im starting to wonder if she has someone on the side..or is she bored with our sex life? what should i do?
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reader, serenity80  +, writes (15 November 2011):
Sex is not the problem here, it's your confidence. You need to work on that, and the rest will fall in to place. If you are consistently feeling down it's going to affect your girlfriend and that will affect her sex drive. You also need to focus less on physical penetration during sex and spend more time being affectionate, kissing, hugging, and touching her in the way she likes being touched. So forget about your dick size, it's not important. It's your confidence you must address.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2011): I can relate to this a lot except id be your gf. I find myself not wanting to have sex as much as my boyfriend all the time and with me its not him. We've been together much longer and he often thinks its because I'm bored with him but I'm not I simply don't have a big sex drive like he does maybe that's the case with your gf. I love my boyfriend very deeply and couldn't imagine sleeping with another guy, I just don't wana do it all the time. Hopefully you and your gf can clear things up and figure out what the problem is. And don't be worried about your size. Its what you do with it that counts.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (14 November 2011):
 What else do you do besides intercourse?
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