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My girlfriend never lets me go clubbing with her!

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Question - (25 February 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 February 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, *norc writes:

I have been going out with my gf for 8 months she never lets me go clubbing with her (always with her girls only. we argue alot now over silly things and its beaking my heart what do i do ?

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A female reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT United Kingdom +, writes (25 February 2007):

BEEN THERE DONE IT agony auntHi babes,

Loads of girls like to go out with their mates on a girlie night out to let their hair down, relationships are built on trust, tell her you trust her and you understand she needs her own space but so do you so get the lads together and go clubbing with them.....Make good quality time for each other and use this time to express how you both feel you have only been together for 8 months so iron out your problems now otherwise they will esculate and get worse.

You maybe arguing over little things but this is because you are harbouring other feelings that have not been dealt with be delicate about it let her know you don't mind her going out with her friends and tell her you are going to go out with the lads maybe every now and again you could all meet up and go clubbing....but let her know that it is important to you to also spend quality time together....

Good luck babe thinking of you xxxxxxxxxxxx

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A female reader, u United Kingdom +, writes (25 February 2007):

Ask her why she never lets you go with her. Ask ask ask okay? Conversation, it's the bes thing to get the answer you want. She may think you may sart to like one of her friends, this means she may get jealous of you lol. You never know!! Good luck xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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A female reader, nicola79 United Kingdom +, writes (25 February 2007):

nicola79 agony auntTell her that maybe she should make 1 night a week for the 2 of you to go out, dont try to stop her going out with her mates thought because she will resent you for it.

Trust her and just sit down and tell her how you feel and ask her if she is happy in this relationship?

Maybe if she didnt go out too much with her mates and spend a bit more time with you,but maybe you should go out with your mates on the nights she goes out and then you will have more time together. keep me posted on how you are sweety, xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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