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30-35,
*etiferAngelus
writes:Okay.. I am in a bit of a Relationship problem of sorts with love. I know I'm only 17.. and most people would thin k it be impossible to fall in love.. or to have feelings of love.. but I have fallin in love with my girlfriend.. and she has fallin in love with me. We were best friends before we started dating.. but my question is well really what should I do? My girlfriend says she has fallin in love with another guy... being our best friend(yes OUR best friend) now.. I need help on what to do with this. She says she wants to be with me.. and I don't want to lose her.. but she says it is tearing her apart.. Her heart is being split in two.. now.. I know this seems selfish.. but how do I get her feelings to go away?.. or to accept them and just move on with life?.. with me. Now.. she says that when she is with me that she forgets everyone else.. that I am the only one and every time we kiss her stomach does flips. But she almost does the same thing with our best friend when she talks to him.. she forgets everyone.. but I'm in the back of her mind poking and prodding.. Now.. we want to be with each other.. we truly do.. but what do I do? I feel so unimportant I guess.. and I want her to just love me.. because We both know that I am better for her.. But, I just don't know what to do. (sorry about the way that I type.. I hope it is understandable.. and please I need help.. I truly do..)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2010): who cares how old you are? love is love.
you have to make sure that this is true love and you have no just fallen in lust. they are very easy to confuse each other.
the three of you may need to sit down and have a really serious, heart to heart conversation.
if you really are in love with this girl, tell her how you feel. tell her that you are in love with her and it kills you to even think of her being with someone else. sweep her off her feet, write her a love letter. girls love that.
prove to her that your the one meant for her and not the other guy.
and find out with your best friend is in love with your girlfriend as well, that will help
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