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writes: I have this girlfriend for less than a year. Intially we were very loving towards each other. Every morning we will wake each other up, call and check how each other is doing, as and when, message each other with those sweet heartening words. Till recently, she stop doing all that, I was afraid to speak to her about this issue cause I believe what we did before is quite too much. Till now I still do what I used to do but what I have receive from her is those kind of normal response. What should I do? Am at a loss. I can't lose her cause I love her too much. Please advise me cause I have been pondering all the negative thoughts which is breaking my heart..
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reader, missdee +, writes (8 September 2005):
Try a change of pace with her. Lay off the text messages and maybe send her some flowers, plan an romantic evening, or take her to do something you know she loves to do. Give her attention without making her feel smothered. The same thing all the time gets old after a while. If things don't pick up you need to talk to her and see if she's had a change of heart.
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reader, Delila +, writes (7 September 2005):
I'm sorry to say it seems as if her affection for you may indeed be waning. Trying too hard could make her back away even further. Try easing off for a while on the romamtic texts and ask her how she is doing in a more matter of fact way. Just be yourself and if she doesn't like you for who you are then she is not the right girl for you anyway.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (7 September 2005):
 It maybe that the relationship has gone a bit stale and you need to get some of the affection back. Take her out on a romantic night out and have a good chat about you two and the relationship. You need to find out if there's anything wrong with her, i.e. she's having doubts about your future together, she's getting bored etc.
At the beginning of all relationships it's all cute messages and nights out but that does wear off. Even if you love each other so much, that original buzz has to wear off sometime and then it becomes a 'real' relationship and if you can get through that, then you know she's for keeps. Good luck :)
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