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My girlfriend doesn't pay her bills!

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Question - (10 May 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 May 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

plz help with some advice as im in a lesbian relationship with a woman who i dont live with as im at parents but stay at girlfriends alot. shes not paying her bills and doesnt have a t.v licence and people knock the door alot. what will happen as she doesnt answer the door and is this the t.v people knocking the door? im worried as she wants me to move in but i dont want my name on her flat if shes not paying bills. what could happen to her?

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A female reader, AuntyAlexxmo United Kingdom +, writes (11 May 2012):

AuntyAlexxmo agony auntIf you move in with her you will end up paying or the bills or end up in trouble because they are not being paid. Not paying a tv licence is a criminal offence and you can even go to prison for that.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2012):

She could get taken to court or sued or maybe jailed? I don't know the laws in your country but there will be severe consequences or else no one would pay anything. Certainly if she doesn't pay rent she will get evicted and become homeless or have tomove in with relatives.

You definitely shouldn't move in with her because she will end up using you as her source of money.

Take her to see a financial advisor to help her make a plan to get her bills paid. Or is there some deeper problem that's sucking away all her money? Is she spending money on drugs or alcohol or gambling? Is she unable to hold down a job? Is she a lavish spender?

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (11 May 2012):

Tisha-1 agony aunthttp://www.adviceguide.org.uk/england/consumer_e/phones_tv_internet_and_computers_index_e/consumer_tips_phones_tv_internet_computers_e/about_tv_licences.htm

I googled 'citizens advice bureau' and then followed links. I think you should not move in until you know she's dealt with it properly.

Here's a site which you can share with her and with any luck, she'll get all of this sorted out!

http://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/index/getadvice.htm

Best wishes!

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