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writes: My girlfriend keeps crying after sex, even sometimes during sex while she is cumming. She says its because she is overwhelmed by emotion but i get worried i have hurt her or made her upset. I keep asking her but she says the same thing.Is she telling me truth or am I doing something wrong? I only want to make her happy Reply to this Question |
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (13 September 2006):
 no youll not hurting her so dont worry when a girl has an orgasm it over takes her whole body and all sorts of things happen! but the best thing is being comftorble around the person you have sex with if shes comftorble around you then you defanetly have nothing to worry about even if she isnt 100%comftorble around you still no worrys!
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reader, Green_Eyes +, writes (12 September 2006):
 I totally agree with Wendy and Rainee on this one. An orgasm's like an entire body thing that you just can't explain and you always feel a bit 'woo!' If you're as close as you can get with someone you truly love, the emotions can sometimes just come flooding out! So, see it as a good thing that she cries and just give her a big warm hug next time :-)
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reader, Rainee  +, writes (11 September 2006):
 Actually, yes, it is normal. It never happens to some people, it sometimes happens with others, and it always happens with the rest. The hormones released during the act can "overwhelm" a person. Even men can be afflicted with this. Honestly, you should just be glad you can get her to cum!
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (11 September 2006):
 My ex did the same thing with me once, I was convinced she was crying because she was harbouring feelings of guilt. I accused her of cheating and ended up in tears myself.
Oh how retrospect can make you smile.
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (11 September 2006):
 Wow, I like WendyG's answer. I never had a girl cry for me before. I guess I just wasn't that overwelming. LOL.
It makes sense the way Wendy describes it though, so it sounds like a good thing!
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (11 September 2006):
 Hi there!
Well I wouldnt say it was normal or abnormal! But I know what shes saying. I have experienced this myself with my boyfriend (doesnt happen every time, but a few times) I love him so much that sometimes the intimacy of the sex and the situation is so overwhelming that I cry! It does sound a little mad, but well during sex lots of hormones are relased and theres a feel good factor about it all, its not about being sad, but being so happy that you are overcome! For me its kind of like the closness and the rapture of the moment, with someone you love so much entwinned in a loving embrace being as close as you can to that person you feel so much love and you kind of cant believe how it all feels, and it all goes a bit wobbly and you feel so overwhelmed and in ore you cry! I would say not to worry its just that shes gets very emotional and take it as a good thing, she loves you very much!!
Take care xx
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