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writes:Hi all! My problem is my ex girlfriend she dumped me at the end of April after a year together but something kicked off on facebook over a status she realized it was nothing about her and apologized.During this argument it caused me to delete her which she disproved of. We Carried on talking by inboxing each other this lasted on and off though out May she asked me stuff like "How am i ?" Hows the new job?" "Any news/new?" . After no contact then in June to which i kept a firm ground btw in Mid July out of the blue she messaged me with a pic on facebook (of this object which is an inside joke to me and her) saying " My friend had this for their birthday and i couldn't help but think of you :)xx" We started talking again She asking the same Questions as before "How am i doing ?" Hows the new job?" "Any news/new?" she has told me everything whats been happening with her and said " you know i haven't been to town (where i live) since college. But i have noticed her messages contain more smiley faces :) and xx Any Advice ?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (3 August 2013):
 I wouldn't read too much into smiley faces. In fact, I wouldn't try to pick apart text messages in having hidden meanings.
Perhaps everything is water under the bridge now, and she's just making nice conversation. After all, you two are adults. If the text messaging turns into a daily thing, then I would say she may want to be rekindling what you two had or at the very least break up sex.....but if it's just random contact, then it's nothing to fuss over.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2013): After reading your post again, I think you need to read this article also:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-does-the-dumper-feel-after-dumping-you.html
You need to get inside her head, and so you can fix yours.
Good luck, my friend!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2013): Read my article about mixed messages from your ex.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/your-ex-is-sending-mixed-signals.html
They do all they can to keep us from moving on. They worry if we might find someone else; or just like knowing we're still suffering. Let her keep her smiley faces.
If she wants you back, let her say so. Save the smiley faces, be a woman about it.
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