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My girl has a bad attitude at times and its hard to bare! Is this reason enough to end it after 2 years ?

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Question - (31 March 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 April 2007)
A male Jamaica age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Girl friend acts like a man. I find myself being submissive to her for a ;peaceful life. I hate arguements. It weighs me down. She talks rough infront of people both in person and on the phone. She hits when she is not pleased at times too. I am tempted to maul her sometimes but refrain. She knows I can retaliate but the man in me never does. she is 5 feet 2 inches I am 6 feet five inches... go figure. she is miserable but hot and sexy rotten attitude at times. and I just can't handle her anymore.. i love her. been together 2 years now. its time to call it quits but is this reason enough?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2007):

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thanks for the responses. I have started to walk away from her during her boisterous conversations and she realizes this and has calmed down because he is the only one left standing since i read these responses. Now she says i am disrespectful and don't care.

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A male reader, Cag Lee "Apollo" Adarma United Kingdom +, writes (31 March 2007):

Cag Lee "Apollo" Adarma agony auntHey dude,

okay, imagine this.

This girl is hitting you, acting up in private and infront of company to such a point that your considering hitting back after 2 years. how would it be after 5 or 10 years, could you handle it?

If you love her and you want to make it work you might have to consider really sitting down with her and saying " hun i don;t want to shout with about this, cause if your start i'm walking away till you calm down, but we need to discuss your attitude". After that couples therapy may be a good idea to get an objective mediator to help you guys work through your stuff.

If you don't all that is worth it, then yea, its reason enough to end it..the choice is yours bro

From

The Capt

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A female reader, Ac.Joker United Kingdom +, writes (31 March 2007):

Ac.Joker agony auntWell, yes, it is. But maybe she's just going through a stressful timne in her life, things could be happening, sit her down and talk to her, just talk, ask what's up, if she says nothing, just talk to her normaly, but after that and she still say's that the's nothing up. Just tell her the deal. Tell her what you think, what you feel, and see how she responds, beccause, time means nothing soemtimes. Allthough we like to think it does. And you seem nice in the way that you don't want to hurt anypone. But something we just have to do if we don't want to be in complete missory.

All the best

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