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My gf broke up with me to find out with certainty if she is gay. What to do?

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Question - (26 February 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 26 February 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *hris89UK writes:

hey I broke up with my gf 5 days ago this is really complicated lol anyways i've known her on and off since i was 13 and i always thought she was the one, we got together 2 years back and it was great all 2 years of it only ever had one or 2 arguments recently though we'd not had sex or anything for about 3 or 4 weeks, i've also known shes always been bisexual anyways when she broke up with me she said it didn't feel right anymore and she need to find out if shes straight or gay for sure and she doesn't know if she loves me, what do i do, move on or hope she changes her mind its been hurting a lot and i need to know what to do

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A male reader, chris89UK United Kingdom +, writes (26 February 2008):

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thanks everyone for the help youve given me lots to think about wot i should do wotever happens happens right

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A male reader, duke of hearts United States +, writes (26 February 2008):

u need to move on in life and try to find someone even better then her!! I had to do that so try to get over it....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008):

Why should you be the one waiting around for her? If she wants to discover her sexuality then fine, but if i was you i would finish the relationship and find someone who is completely 100% into you. You cannot put yourself through this and you do deserve better. So shape up and move on.

take care

xx

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A female reader, hello1 United Kingdom +, writes (26 February 2008):

hello1 agony auntShe needs this time alone to explore and realise what she really wants, she properly is bisexual but wants to try the other side of that. Loads of bisexual women feel this way, just be thankful she didn't do this to you if you two got married! She may realise in time that she loves you or she may not. It's up too you

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A female reader, bc2283 Australia +, writes (26 February 2008):

if she don't love you move on....that simple

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (26 February 2008):

rcn agony auntI'd say move on or invite her to bring a girlfriend along.

The problem with the confusion is if you wait for her, and she comes back, how long before confused again?

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