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*enny2692
writes:Hey all,I am a bi-sexual male and have had another male partner who is gay. For around twelve months our relationship together has never been serious, however, the two of us have had intercourse numerous times. My problem is that he now has a problem with himself being gay. He has now rejected me because he doesn't want to be who he really is anymore. What do I do? How/Should I support him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): "What do I do? How/Should I support him?"
You don't. He's confused. Given how young you are, I'd avoid labeling his sexual preference at all. A one year relationship and intercourse with someone of the same sex doesn't define you... or at least not in my book. Perhaps, try telling him how you don't understand what's going on. Be supportive of his choice, no matter what it is. All you can do is encourage him to be his authentic self. However, if he denies himself then its his loss. Move on and find someone who is comfortable and ready to be themself, male or female.
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