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dave22uk
writes:Hi I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years now, last year we went out in town and we had a bad argument(she poured her drink over me because i accidently spilt some on her shoes), i left the club and was waiting for a taxi, i rang her loads and asked her to come home with me but she didnt, she stayed out and ended up going back to my mates house. i wasnt happy about this at all. the next day i asked her did anythin happen with the two and she said no so i believed her.she said she slept on the sofa and he slept in his bed. last week we went out and i deciede to go home early because i wasnt feelin well. i found out from my friends that she was all over my mate, she wouldnt leave him alone, she followed him everywhere. i also found out that she said to him that she didnt want to be with me anymore. the next day i got a message from my mate sayin my girlfriend has been tryin it on with him. he said she asked him to stay at her house with her. i confronted her and she said it was true but only wanted him to go over because she didnt want to be alone.i accepted that for a strange reason but the next day i found out that her and my mate did sleep in the same bed a year ago but apparently nothing went on.what am i to believe? my head is messed up, could you give me some advice? Reply to this Question |
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reader, dave22uk +, writes (24 June 2008):
dave22uk is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hi just want to thnk you all for your advice, sadly i didnt take your advice and give her another chance. I wish i didnt now. We have split up now, she was cheating on me with random people off a adult dating website. guess some people are not ment to have love or happiness.
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reader, dave22uk +, writes (22 June 2008):
dave22uk is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi just want to thnk you all for your advice, sadly i didnt take your advice and give her another chance. I wish i didnt now. We have split up now, she was cheating on me with random people off a adult dating website. guess some people are not ment to have love or happiness.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2007): ugh. Dump her. She is no good. Has no respect for you. She did this with your own friend?? She is a scandalous woman and you can do so much better. And you are VERY lucky that you have such good friends. Cause had your friends sucked, he would have slept with her and not told you. So you have good friends. Believe them. And dump her. You will be much better off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2007): Dump her! There is obviously something going on there but rather than opening the pack of worms. Dump her and move on.
But hey, at least your mate was nice enough to tell you rather than just taking something stuffed in front of his face.
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reader, Joanne Jane  +, writes (6 December 2007):
Well...I think you better off with her, you can find somebody else and by the way you're a man, you can find any girl you want and is better than your old one...if you keep on to your
relationship, you'll end up confused.I hope you'll made a good decision soon....
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reader, Collaroy  + ♥, writes (6 December 2007):
 Sorry mate,
but you are best off by ending this relationship now.
She obviously has taken a shine to your mate and is not too concerned about who sees them together. Your mate is worried as he doesnt want to betray a friend, on the other hand your girlfried apparently doesnt seem to have the same problem.
The fact that she is chasing after him is the most worrying thing, she appears to subconciously be rejecting you but not to your face, in front of all your friends.
Damn it, I wouldnt put up with that, it must be humiliating. Seriously dude you can do better.
4 years is a long time to be together , but some relationships just arent meant to be, if I were you I would make my future plans without her involved.
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reader, bqagirl2692  +, writes (5 December 2007):
 Well it looks to me that your girlfriend is very suspicious and may have an attraction to your mate. I mean you not only heard it from one person, you heard it from your mate as well. Dont you think that if HE did something,wouldn't try and hide it or at least admit to you since he called you? Your girlfriend admitted she wanted him over but only for company. Why couldnt she ask a close friend of her's or her OWN boyfriend? Why did it have to be your mate? Do you see what im saying? Maybe this girl isnt the one for you. ?Seems to me that she has a way of manipulating you with her lies. Dont let her get to you. You deserve better than that. Someone who will appreciate what you have to offer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2007): something obviously happened if she was all over him dump the girl and get on with your life
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