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writes:ok. so this is the story. i met this guy a year ago and we became friends. everyone noticed there was chemistry between us. but i always figured it was a lost cause because he has a girlfriend. the problem is he keeps behaving inappropriately, some times when we're together alone, for example one night having no where to stay, he stayed with me he slept in my bed and he would wrap his legs around mine, and at one point he pinned me to my bed and his mouth was half an inch from mine. this sort of thing has been going on for about a year now but he still has the girlfriend, although she has been living in another country for 2 and a half years of their 3 year relationship. we're such good friends i don't want to lose that but he obviously has some sort of feelings for me though we've never talked about it. clearly i have feeling for him too or i wouldn't let it go on but i have no idea what do to . should i talk to him, what would i even say?
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reader, Love Rockx my Sockx +, writes (14 October 2006):
Firstly i really don't like the way this guy is acting. Okay so maybe there might be chemistry between you two but he has a girlfriend and if he didnt knw wot to think, he should have told her that they need a break or something. " what goes around comes around" and "once a cheater always a cheater" !
Good on you for not reacting to him eventho you have let it happen and ure right to thnk u have feelings for him. You should definitely talk to him because he is playing mind games with u and using u physically and that tells me he does disrespect u in a certain manner. But do talk to him and try to clear the air as much as possible and if he doesnt want to tell u anything etc. then he is not worth it and u can clearly move on with ure life.
Xx Good Luck xX :):) !!
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