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writes:Hi, I have a problem and wanted to ask for some advise since I don't know what to do. Today a good friend of mine which is also a classmate from a class I'm talking told me that things between him and his girlfriend have not been good and that they barely date now. After he told me this he told me that his girlfriend likes me and that If I liked her to go ahead and get to know her more but he said to please don't say anything to her he told me this. What should I do in this situation? I told him I would feel weird taking a friends girlfriend out.. I think it would be awkward. I said if things are meant to be between them that things would improve or if they were not going to work that things happens for the best, I think they have been dating for 2 years. What do you suggest please? thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your answer mooh. I am definitely keeping my distance. I was thinking about this yesterday and realized that 2 weeks ago my friend and his girlfriend and me were suppose to met on a weekend to play some sports but then he told me that he couldn't make it bla bla bla but that his girlfriend was able to go. So instead of him talking to her, he said for me to message her to set it up so we could go meet me and hang out.... I just told her and my friend that we could all do it another time and that it was no problem. After all this, probably 1 week after was when he told me what I described before... that him and her were not good lately and that she liked me... lots of drama or seems that they want me to be the reason for them to break up.... this sucks.
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reader, mooh  +, writes (28 May 2012):
It's a trap!
He probably has some jealousy issues with his girlfriend. If you have some contact with his girlfriend, don't do anything weird and keep your distance. Sounds like the drama lama is in town.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for all your answers everyone!. Yes this seems very suspicious and I wasn't speaking to hear this from him, I was shocked when he told me... I guess I have to be careful with this but I have never hanged out with the girl alone, every time we hang out the guy is there... I'm definitely Not taking part of this sneaky situation..
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reader, PeanutButter  +, writes (28 May 2012):
 I would definitely steer clear of the girlfriend, it does sound like he is testing the wasters to see if you are interested in her or vice versa, he might think you're already seeing her and is trying to dig to find out. It is extremely shady and you don't need any part of it!
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reader, curious1987 +, writes (27 May 2012):
 Id say, its possible hes testing u. To see if you would go after husband gf or get with her behind his back. i ccould be wrong. but that's what it sounds like to me. :-)
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reader, loveonce  +, writes (27 May 2012):
 for friendship's sake,stay away from her
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